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Whether you’re in a relationship right now or still looking for the right person, knowing what healing in partnership looks like can help you recognize the right person when they show up — someone who will hold your tender spots with care, not use them against you. Think back to the last time your partner […read more]

Valentine’s Day may be behind us, but true intimacy is built in the quiet, everyday moments that follow. 🕊️ I recently sat down with Michael Darden @father_talks_ to discuss what it actually takes to foster a safe and deeply connected partnership. We moved past the surface to explore the “secrets” of lasting emotional bonds: 𝐕𝐮𝐥𝐧𝐞𝐫𝐚𝐛𝐢𝐥𝐢𝐭𝐲 […read more]

The relationship skills you wish someone had taught you as a child? You can still learn them now. 🕊️ I recently sat down with Andrew Phipps on The Intimacy Inquiry for a wide-ranging conversation that reminds me exactly why I do this work. We traced the full arc of the human experience—from how we first […read more]
“Thanks, Valerie, for all your wonderful support last year. After giving my Dismissive Avoidant partner a whole year to step up to the intimacy plate, I said good-bye. Soon after, with my profile up for only two days, I met another sweet, mature, emotionally available man! We’ve been talking every day, 2-3 hours, have a […read more]
I had been single for 10 years, with difficult past relationships. In the last 10 years I had a huge crush on someone who rejected me, and then the same exact thing happened a few years from then. Somehow unrequited love was my thing. I had also had crushes in childhood which were unrequited. Valerie […read more]
Before working with Valerie, I was emotionally exhausted. I wanted to find a healthy partnership but realized I needed help defining and recognizing what a good partner might look like earlier on in the dating cycle. In private sessions with Valerie, I have been able to explore and transform my internal feelings in a safe […read more]
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